The most common search terms that lead people to this blog are, “bedwetting spouse”, “bedwetting boyfriend” and the like. I ran them through Google, just to see where this appeared in the list.
What I found were cris de couer to medical sites and advice forums:
“My husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend wets the bed, what can I do?”
“My boyfriend/girlfriend is trying to hide his/her bedwetting, but I found out.”
On the other side, I see equally desperate cries:
“I wet the bed – How can I ever have a boyfriend/girlfriend? How can I ever get married?”
“How can I tell my girlfriend/boyfriend?”
If you’re asking one of those questions and wind up here, my advice is the same as my advice to anyone who wets the bed:
If your spouse/lover/boyfriend/girlfriend wets the bed, reassure him/her. Get him/her to a doctor.
Bedwetting is not a big deal. No one who loves you will care that you wet the bed.
If you love someone who wets the bed, don’t let it bother you. It won’t affect you at all. Properly managed, you shouldn’t even notice. Bedwetting is not a big deal.